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Can We Really Pay-It-Forward or is It Just a Nice Idea?

KoinBlog, April 7, 2025March 7, 2025

If one were to pause, just once a day, to extend an act of kindness with no expectation of return, what might change? The idea is so simple that it is often dismissed outright—too quaint, too idealistic, too fragile for the weight of reality. Yet, it is precisely its simplicity that makes it so powerful. To perform an act of goodness, not for gain or recognition, but purely because it can be done, is to resist the inertia of self-interest that governs so much of human activity.

The idea itself is not new. It has been spoken of in sermons, captured in literature, dramatized in films. But what has always remained unclear is why it has never taken hold at scale. Most would agree, in principle, that kindness is valuable. Few would argue against the benefits of generosity, of solidarity, of a world where people help one another without hesitation. And yet, it does not happen. Why? Because the idea is not merely about action—it is about disrupting the way we have been conditioned to think. It is not enough to want to do good; one must be willing to step outside of habit, to break the rhythm of one’s own concerns.

Perhaps the greatest obstacle is inconvenience. To engage with the needs of another requires effort, and effort requires sacrifice—of time, of ease, of detachment. It is far simpler to nod along with the concept of goodness than it is to enact it in the moment. The weight of daily life encourages efficiency, and efficiency has little patience for deviation. A person hurrying through their routine has little time to stop, to notice, to extend themselves beyond what is strictly necessary. The opportunity for kindness is there, but it passes, unseized, because it requires a pause, and pausing feels like a luxury.

But what if the pause were no longer seen as an interruption? What if it became part of the day, as natural and necessary as eating or sleeping? There is an unspoken assumption that goodness is something to be added, something extra that one must find room for in an already crowded existence. But what if it is not an addition, but a return? What if the instinct to care for one another is not something to be learned, but something to be remembered? Children do not hesitate to help; they do not weigh the cost of kindness against efficiency. It is only over time that people are trained to regard their own comfort as the highest priority.

If a single act of goodness were done each day, and if that act were passed along, the world would not transform overnight. There would be no sudden collapse of greed or selfishness, no immediate redemption of a fractured society. But something would shift. A habit would form. And habit, once ingrained, reshapes the world in ways that grand gestures never can. The smallness of the act is its strength. It does not demand wealth, or power, or status. It requires only willingness.

To live solely in pursuit of comfort is to live half a life. Comfort in itself is not an evil, but when it becomes the measure of all things, it narrows the horizon of existence. It is easy to construct a life that is insulated from inconvenience, from effort, from responsibility toward others. But such a life, no matter how well-furnished, is barren. The pursuit of ease is endless, and yet, it never satisfies. A person who seeks only their own comfort will find that no amount is ever enough.

If, instead, one were to give freely—once a day, without hesitation, without calculation—something might be restored. Not in the world at large, not in sweeping political or economic terms, but in the fabric of individual existence. There would be, perhaps, a sense of rightness, of being properly aligned with what it means to be human. To offer kindness is not merely to assist another; it is to affirm that life is something more than transactions and survival. It is to acknowledge that what we owe one another is not measured in currency, but in attention, in action, in the refusal to look away.

The question is not whether such a thing is possible. It is whether we are willing to do it.

Join us in making the world a better place – you’ll be glad that you did. Cheers friends.

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